Getting out the clutter and not letting it come back

So as Christmas time has rolled around again I see the typical commercialism and it's always off putting to me, but this year especially so. It bothers me that so many disposable items are marketed as must haves, and like lemmings, the masses fall right in and consume them. It makes me feel bad too that I am tempted by some of it. It's even more devastating to see that my kids are immersed in it and the gimmes have started. In an attempt to regain control of my housekeeping I have been systematically going from room to room, area to area and decluttering. There are only a few pockets of the house that remain. Ive tried to evaluate whether or not we use, or will use the item, do we need it? Does it fit our lifestyle and goals? I've established homes for things and if there is no home for it in my home, it doesn't belong here. This is all good. It feels so relieving to not have piles of stuff around me. It feels good to know that the things that I have eliminated have been given to others to help them in their need. It feels good to be able to see surfaces clean, and free of dust and excess. So those areas are done. Now I see other parts of my life, parts where I have a home for things, but the there still exists areas of excess. I'm questioning do I need them, even if I have somewhere to store it. So where do I go from here? I want a balance. I dont think having things is wrong if I can afford the time, money, space and stress of owning them. Possessions should not create problems of any kind. How do I continue to get the clutter out once I've gotten through the first cull? It gets harder to decide at this point what should go. Its easier to justify keeping things now, especially since they do have a home. How do I figure out what is OK to actually bring into the house once I have started this process? Unfortunately the things i have eventyally break, wear, get used up or we outgrow them. When it is time to consider replacing them, how do I decide if I even need to or not? These are some of the questions I am working through figuring out. Now if I could just unclutter my mind.

32BHDS

32BHDS, a photo by mom2rays on Flickr.

After having owned this Travel Trailer for more than a year and having used it more than the other RVs combined, I can say without a doubt, I'm glad we decided last year to go ahead and buy it. The size works well for our family allowing us to feel cozy together, but to have our own spaces when needed. And all of the areas feel just as comfortable as another.
My favorite features are still the bunkhouse and the bathroom exterior entrance. But as we have used it, we have found some areas that we have chosen to upgrade and change.
We've made most of the modifications to the bunkhouse to maximize storage, usability and safety. The changes have been simple, rail here,hook there, shelves, etc. It really has made a difference in how the kids can use the space, it's more tailored for them.
We have also made changes in other areas, the bedding in the MBR from memory foam mattress topper to hand stitched mid century quilt. And in the main living area we upgraded the microwave.
As time progresses we will continue to change things to allow this to become more and more our home away from home. I've come to realize that this is a process and we will find our way as we have more time to use the TT and see how it feels when we are in it.
We feel very thankful, after having found this floor plan we thought that it was not within our range of affordability, but then Rocky happened to find this one on Craigslist. The owner wanting to make a break from RVing. The timing couldn't have been more perfect.
I hope to be able to blog of our adventures in the future, here, or on our RVing blog.

Finally spinning again!

, a photo by mom2rays on Flickr.

I picked up spinning yarn in 2008 after my sister introduced me to the concept via a spindle. Thankfully heavenly Handspinning made affordable spinning wheels or I wouldn't have picked up the hobby very well. I didn't get spindle spinning until about 6 months ago! I started with their single treadle wheel, the Fidelis. Some months later I had the pleasure and joy of going to meet Jan of Heavenly Handpinning in person. When I did she and her husband upgraded my Fidelis for their double treadle wheel the Bellus. I spun many lovely yards of yarn on Bellaranea (beautiful spinner). Now I have a Vespera, their espinner and a Spinolution Bee named Melina (Honey, because she spins so smooth). I haven't named or finished my Vespera yet, I got her inFebruary and honestly my life has been in such a whirlwind through getting her until now that I really haven't gotten much time with her,
She's FAST! Not that I spin super fast, but when I spin on her, she's going so fast! Her bobbins are also huge, that bobbin in my hand has 4 oz of fiber on it and it's not even close to being 1/2 full. This is only the 2nd yarn I've made on her. 33wpi for my singles. It's Polwarth from Urban Gypz that I purchased at Stitches South 2011.
Currently I'm spinning some Gale's Art Blue Face Swirl into similar singles so that I can ply them together. I had almost forgotten how much I love to spin!
Sometimes it's hard to be multi craftual because it's hard to decide which craft gets time and attention.

The Desks are done!

We finally have finished the desks!!!  Well the tops may possibly have another step to finish them, but they are useable and I love them! Zuri decided to do some school today to try them out! I think she approves of her pink ultrasuede desk topper. Here's Zuri's desk unoccupied:
The boy's desks are also done. Here they are side by side:
And here's a closer view of Mardie's:
and Charmie's:

Details on the project:
After we bought the desks, clean and disassemble them.
repaint all painted surfaces
measure tops for template and discard
buy birch plywood and have cut into 24"x19" pieces at Lowes
Rocky routes the edges to round them Sand with 180 then 300 grit sandpaper all wood surfaces Reassemble desks

For the toppers since I chose to leave the wood unfinished
cut 24.25"x19.25" piece of clear urethane
cut a 24.25"x8.5" piece of fabric that for the most part is hardly seen
1 package of binding for the boys, 1" strip of ultrasuede for Z's desk
2-3.5" pieces of 1/4" elastic


turn lengthwise (long side) of fabric under twice and hem
attach walking foot to sewing machine
lay out lengthwise section of fabric on urethane
touching one edge with he hem towards the center
lay elastic in other two corners bind you will have to lift the urethane off of the sewing deck or use tissue paper as it will stick to the deck. These toppers protect the desks and are easy to clean. If I decide on a permanent solution in the future the desks tops will have been protected, and ready to go! It feels good to get the school "in order".

SAFF 2011 haul

SAFF 2011 haul, a photo by mom2rays on Flickr.

The Southern Animal Fiber Festival in Henderson, NC is a fun annual event the third weekend in October that I like to attend. I went both for pleasure, and to help a friend with her 10 week old while she taught some classes. Little Josh was an angel, and I got my shop awn ;-}
I love the creativity, handmadeness, and experience of SAFF. It's hard to explain, so I will just say, if you get a chance, just go! I ran into some of my favorite indie dyers, but didn't really buy much in the usual vein of fiber and yarn from them. This was a first, but I'm OK with it. I have been blessed with much yarn and fiber so no need to add to the stash at this time.
I got some things I have been wanting though:
A tumbler from Plays In Mud Studio. I love the mug I bought from her my first SAFF and decided if she was there that I must get a tumbler as well.
A handmade brass shawl pin that is low profile. Sometimes I want something small for smaller shawlettes and scarves. This one is perfect!
Shampoo and conditioner bars
and some commercially made items that I love.
Oh and not pictured, but in my flickr stream are some hand stamped ceramic buttons that have the most unusual finish.
I'm hoping next year my entire family will make the trip to SAFF and we can turn it into a camping weekend. Oh and I forgot the art batt from lunabudknits, on the bobbin above, on my wheel here as I finished spinning it up thick and thin. . .

Little Z is growing!

, a photo by mom2rays on Flickr.

Up until this point, we have always needed a trailer for our bike rides. Zuri can finally reach the pedals on the trail-a-bike so we can attempt bike rides now with us all on saddles.
This is exciting for us all, especially Zuri! This may also open up new types of cycling adventures, though so far the trailer hasn't slowed us down too much.

Western night

Western night, a photo by mom2rays on Flickr.

Each year the church that we do Awana through has a Western night. It is a lot of fun for the kids, and leaders alike. They encourage the kids to dress in country western wear. They take the Sparks and older groups on a hayride through local streets. Rocky and I pull the Puggles and Cubbies around on our trailer with the golf cart in the parking lot. They bring in a small petting "zoo/farm" outfit and a mechanical bull and also have a bonfire for roasting marshmallows and making s'mores.
We've never dressed the kids for the night. They never had western wear. This year for his birthday Charime asked for a cowboy costume, and trips to a few local goodwill stores last night yielded Zuri's and Mardie's western effects. The kids had a blast for Western Night!

Camping at the Beach

Beach ride, a photo by mom2rays on Flickr.

Last week we went to Myrtle Beach for a little camping, the GCI Gathering in the Harvest fall conference, and to run the Children's ministry program there. We stayed at Lakewood campground for the 2nd time in as many years.

Our conference responsibilities were a lot of work as Rocky and I haven't done this before under these circumstances but it was also a lot of fun.

We tried to squeeze in fun with the kids. The first day we road our bikes on the beach down to the pier. The boys decided to actually ride in the ocean. It was all fun and games for them even up to their chest height until the wind started to blow and they realized they were freezing cold.

This trip was full of experiences and learning lessons for us. l learned to try to relax and go with the flow. Rocky and I learned to try to plan ahead better. Charmie learned that God can still use him, even when he makes mistakes. The boys learning to anticipate consequences of their choices.

We even reconnected with a family we met last year at the campground and really enjoyed their company. We didn't have the opportunity to exchange information when we parted last time so it was sad to think we wouldn't see each other again. Meeting up was a blessing for our families.

Each time we go camping, we want to go more and stay for longer. Too bad we couldn't stay for a few more days. . .

Simpler Toys for Simpler Times

, a photo by mom2rays on Flickr.

Recently we have significantly cut back on TV, videogames and computer time for the kids and guess what? I have new kids! Suddenly reading, constructing a megastructure or drawing an illustrated picture is fun. Imagine that!

I love this and want to wholeheartedly encourage it because it has been kind of a hard transition for the kids from what they are used to and it's my fault for compromising on what I knew to be the case.  If they don't have those distractions, they recreate themselves in a more creative way.

Today when we were shopping for groceries at Yoder's Amish Market, Charmie found a yoyo and Zuri found some stamps (her latest fixation). Mardie wasn't with us because this was his special weekend with his grandparents for his birthday.

I was kind of surprised that Charmie and Zuri were fascinated with the toys they selected. Usually they are interested in Legos or dolls or other more complicated toys. These were simple. . .

I decided to make Mardie's toy since he wasn't there to pick it out. By choosing something different from Charmie, they can both learn new skills, and there should be less competition between them over newly gained skills. Hopefully, I may even see them encouraging one another o.O

Mardie's footbag is made with green embroidery floss and craft thread with a size C hook. The pattern is a free Ravelry download. It was rather quick to make and I stuffed it with Poly Pellets vs. lentils in case it gets wet and needs a cleaning.

I am thinking of trying to make a set of juggling balls as a Christmas present for a special someone who wants to learn how to juggle.

Hard at work

Hard at work, a photo by mom2rays on Flickr.

Studio and School preview

Studio and School preview, a photo by mom2rays on Flickr.

Rocky and I decided we needed to change some things around drastically in our home. Some of that meant spaces we had used needed to go away, some of it meant other spaces had room to grow!
We decided that using the bonus room for 3 purposes was too crowded and that we could enjoy TV/video games could happen just as well in our great room as it could up here, the difference being that we could all be a part of it.
We also decided that since we were homeschooling, a dedicated space would work the best for us all.
Finally, unlike the TV, I have no other place to put my sewing area, so that could stay, but the area is spread out more than it was before.
The result, a "real" classroom has blossomed out of the space. It has come together with items that we already had elsewhere for the most part. Few were purchased new, many items were thrifted and purchased 2nd hand some time before.
We finally have room to both work individually and together. The student desks from my previous post are finished being painted, but the tops await final routing and a clear coat to make them more durable.
My Levenger desk is the wooden one in the foreground, facing the window.  It was a garage sale steal a few years ago and I have a matching credenza that I use currently to hold my coverhem and embroidery machines and various fiber art items . My anti-gravity and Rocky's massage chairs (black) were purchased shortly after we were married, admittedly, 10+ years of use, especially with the kids have taken their toll, but they are still the most comfortable seats in our home. Continuing from my desk on the left side, Z's desk will be closest to mine, between the bookcases and my chair. These bookcases are actually strong but light weight, unfinished, wooden collapsible display shelves I got for $25 each when my local yarn shop closed a few years ago. They house almost all of my teaching materials, resource books, some manipulatives and displays.
The back wall under the window has plastic drawers with more manipulatives and craft supplies.
The central table is "just right" for all of us to comfortably sit and work together. The height is not so much that it dwarfs the kids, yet I can easily sit at it and my knees fit underneath. We had a full sized dining table in this room originally for the school and it was WAY too oversized, both in height and in girth for the space. This table is sturdy, with solid oak legs and skirting and a formica top, it's 30"x60" size is perfect. I was ecstatic to find it at a Habitat re-store for donated from somebody else's classroom for $10.
Continuing around the room C's desk will sit in the far corner to the left of the workboxes. M's desk will be to the right with Rocky's chair and my cutting table finishing out the space.
We can all be in here at once with separate areas to work and "be". Rocky can use this room for sermon preparation and church business since it will be relatively quiet when we aren't schooling.
This room has had so many "roles" since we moved into this house almost 7 years ago. I am glad we have transitioned to it being used to further our family growth and development!
Look what our new creative space has already yielded! Z decided to write her name and draw a picture of me! This is our 2nd week of school! I'm loving it!

The search for the perfect school desks

School desks, a photo by mom2rays on Flickr.

We are just about ready to start back schooling. We admittedly took a summer break, though when opportunities arose we schooled in this summer.

My homeschool "space" has been a big frustration to me. I haven't figured out how to find a niche in my home that fits all of the HS stuff I have, and I haven't figured out yet how to cull things down and let things go. So we have cluttered resources and very little space.

Last year I switched from our little "desks", we were repurposing our Babee Tenda Feeding tables, to a table that we could all sit at.

First I had a little one from an old school room. It fit my space, but not my knees (though the kids fit it just fine). Then Rocky found for me a larger table, but we had not accurately measured the dimensions we needed so this table is WAY too big. The space we had is now crowded and not functional for what we need to do. That wasn't the only problem. The kids are all at such different levels, and Mardie and Zuri still need quite a bit of instruction from me, so time at the table all together meant that at least one person was being distracted almost all of the time. I decided we needed to go back to desks and if we want to use a table the kitchen table or bar will work just fine.

My dilemma was that I didn't feel the feeding tables were the best choice. They are sturdy and adjustable, but the lip around the edge kept the kids from having proper ergonomics and they just didn't feel right.

I was very fortunate to find these donated desks at the Habitat for Humanity restore. They evidently had served their purpose at the local community college, and were not going to continue to be used. The original donation was reportedly large, but when I looked, only these 3 desks remained. American Seating, adjustable height, industrial strength that would withstand daily use and grow with the kids through graduation. . .they were EXACTLY what I was looking for! And at $8 each I could not beat the price anywhere!

We are almost finished with repainting the metal parts and just need to figure out the material we will use for the replacement tops. I asked the kids what colors they wanted their desks to be. I will post pictures of them when they are all done and put back together.

This small step will hopefully help our small homeschool space to be maximized again for our use :)

Lazy Kate Tutorial

hmmm, I found this in drafts.  I guess I should post it.

I built this lazy kate for my Heavenly Handspinning bobbins. It's tensioned and will work if you happen to have 2 sets of bobbins. Here's what you need:

Tools

Saw (I used a compound miter)

Drill with philips screwdriver head, 1/2" and 1/4" bits

Sandpaper either palm sander or sponge block

Ruler

Pencil

2-Clamps

Dremel with sander tip

Materials

1-1x3x4 oak furniture grade board

1-1x2x4 oak furniture grade board

2-3/8" 3' oak dowels

10 Acorn dowel caps with 3/8" hole

1-Shaker peg

Hemp twine

Gorilla glue

4-2" flat phillips head wood screws

1 small screw in eyehook

Instructions

First measure how wide your bobbins are. Mine are two widths so I chose the widest for my measurement. Add .5" inch to that for freedom of movement, 2" for width of the boards and 1.5" for the portion sticking out on either side where the acorns go. I needed 11". Cut 1 lenth of dowel in your measurement for each bobbin you would like to place on the kate. Using the dremel tool and sander tip sand the ends around the diameter until they fit snugly into the acorn caps. On ONE end only place a drop of glue into the cap once you are sure they will fit, then snug on the dowel. Use the glue sparingly as it expands, wipe away any excess. Set the dowels and remaining caps aside.

Now you need to determine how tall your kate needs to be. I wanted mine to serve as bobbin storage and work as a tensioned kate so I needed room for all of my bobbins save the one on my wheel.

My bobbins are 3" diameter at the widest whorl. For 5 I calculated I needed 19". Cut the 1x2x4 into two identical lenghts. Save the remainder 10". You will need it later.

Placing the bobbins down onto one of your pieces largest whorl down carefully measure and mark out their centers on the lenght of the board. Mark one end of both boards as the top.

Aligning the ends you marked in the previous step clamp the boards together and using the 1/2" bit drill through both boards at the same time. Remove the 1/2" bit as you will no longer need it for this project.

Cut the 1x3x4 to 13"

Center the 10" 1x2x4 onto it and mark holes for the screws. Clamp and predrill with 1/4" bit through both pieces. Drill all of the way through to eliminate splits as you screw.

Now comes the tricky part. You need to make a box. Take the 10" section and line it up with the two 19" pieces. Using the hole you already drilled into the 10" piece predrill the 19" pieces into their top end.

Align the side pieces with the end pieces and useing the existing drill holes predrill these side pieces to prevent splitting.

Using 2 of the screws screw these pieces together to form the top and sides of your box. Make sure all edges are flush.

Invert the U and take the 13" section, match the predrilled holes to the centers of your box sides and predrill again into the bottom ends of the box sides.

Using the remaining two screws, attach the bottom. If you know how to countersink the screws a bit the kate will sit flatter and be less wobbly.

Put the bobbins into the kate with the large whorls all to one side.

Lastly drill a hole into the base directly below the largest whorl with a bit that cooresponds to the diameter of the shaker peg end.

insert the shaker peg. Screw the eyehook into the other side of your kate base directly opposite the shaker peg.

Measure your hemp twine twice the height of your kate, plus 3" Tie a small knot into one end of the hemp twine to the eye hook. Tie the other end around the shaker pegs. Take the twine over the top of the kate.

Now you are ready to insert the remaining bobbins. To keep them from falling out cap the open end with the remaining acorn caps but do not glue them.

To tension the kate, wrap the twine around the shaker peg and insert it when taught. Make sure the twine rests in the large whorl of all of the bobbins to gain proper tension.

This kate can be adjusted to any height, though once it reaches a certain height it may be better to use a bigger base for more stability.

Two Bihns run errands

Well today I spent some time making over my blog.  I hope that it's a pleasure to read for all.  I wanted to share something that is a pleasure for me.  

In my pages section I have a  list called tools of the trade where I feature some of my favorite things.  Some of my recent favorites are my Tom Bihn bags.  Pictured here are the Little Swift in Vulcana Hemp/Recycled Rubber as my purse and an Shop Bag in Ultraviolet Dyneema as my mailbag.  

For years I have searched for a quality, useful bag system and I believe I have finally found it.  

I fell in love with these bags way back in 2007 when I was searching for the perfect knitting bag.  I found the Swift.  I didn't buy one then, it wasn't until the end of 2010 that I finally bought one of their bags, and this year I finally got my first full sized Swift.  

n+1. . .

My bags have had babies, and I now have bags for travel, shopping, library trips, the beach, post office runs, day trips, my laptop, edc's and of course knitting.  

I love how the organizer pouches fit and clip into the bags to add infinite pockets and organization.  Due to the fact that they come in different sizes, and different materials and are removable they work to organize whatever bag I am currently using easily by sight or feel.  

I also love the durability of the fabrics and findings, most of them USA made.  Many owners from 15+ years report still using their bags as they look nearly new.   I love the real cork, recycled rubber/vulcana hemp and Dyneema fabrics.  They are so unique and original just to TB bags.  They work well in different settings and make the bags very versatile, durable and aesthetically pleasing.

I have yet to find anything that doesn't "go" with the cork or the hemp fabrics in my wardrobe.  And I use the Dyneema shop bag (plus his 3 friends) weekly to haul heavy loads of groceries and there is no signs of stress or fail!

The fact that I had the opportunity to go to the factory in Seattle, meet the employees, talk to Tom Bihn himself and see how the business is run (on a day they were not open to the public no less) really makes this company stand apart.  

A real business giving Americans real jobs, both in their product, but the resources to make their products.  Very rare, and hard to find.  To top it all off, Tom stands behind his merchandise and will repair or replace it if it has been through normal use (care instructions) and has failed during it's lifetime.  Hardly any company offers this anymore for their products, let alone products that are used daily.  

Oh, and these bags make great gifts! 

The rough section

The rough section
Originally uploaded by mom2rays
We went for a ride yesterday at a park in Albemarle. I was out of sorts and not prepared for it. So I didn't start my cycle computer app and have no clue on our distance or speed. It was rough through the woods, very uneaven terrain, steep hills, quick turns, switchbacks and even a few downed trees over the path. I believe I need a more skill to do well on paths like this.
The boys had a similar hard time. Their issues were skill and the limitations of their bikes. Today they are sore from using different muscles than they are used to.
Z enjoyed herself being trailered behind Rocky until we stopped for him to try a technical area, she got out of the trailer and was bitten by fire ants.

 If we do this trail again, I will be better prepared. Actually, I am going to better prepare for all of our future rides. At least the bites occurred after we were clear of the woods and Rocky could sprint to the truck and retrieve our first aid kit quickly. Needless to say, our ride was over after the bites.

No more spider man

No more spider man
Originally uploaded by mom2rays

Zuri has endured using spider man cloth napkins the first 3.5 years of her life. Poor thing. So today I decided to use some assorted girly flannels to make her a set of her own cloth napkins. I think she's pleased.

My 3 year old chef

Z makes some brownies
Originally uploaded by mom2rays

Zuri helps me make some brownies for dessert. She was a great assistant. This was her first time helping me all by herself (without her brothers) I think we will be doing more baking projects going forward. We had a lot of fun baking together :)

Value Village Treasure

Value Village Treasure
Originally uploaded by mom2rays

A little over a year ago I started recreational cycling and got interested in bikes as transportation and for exercise. Right before Higher Ground camp we bought me a Schwinn off craigslist. It was a Hybrid and way too large of a frame, but I didn't know this at the time. It was nicer than my freecycle MTB that weighed a ton and had crappy gearing, but still wasn't a pleasure to ride. I still rode. I rode greenways, I road some park trails, I road around our neighborhood with Rocky and the kids. I gained confidence, I gained more interest, I learned about shifting and about saddles and all kinds of things.
For mother's day this year Rocky bought me a lovely Specialized Ariel Sport Disc and we put 29er tires onto her. I have a bike that can do all kinds of surfaces and is fun to ride for the type of riding I predominantly do.
From the beginning of my interest last year, I fantasized about a vintage Mixte that I custom build up to be a touring bike for road riding only. I looked around, and couldn't really find the perfect bike. I wasn't in a hurry so it wasn't an issue. I found a few but they were not in good condition and $$$. Evidently Mixte's are pretty popular.
Wednesday I stopped by my Value Village and found this Takara (Treasure in Japanese) Mixte. The price was very right, $18.18 to be exact. She came home!
She's the right size frame, and in very good condition, save cracks in the side walls of her tires.
She's going to need some work to get her to where I want her, but I am so excited to have her, and am looking forward to the project of turning her into what I dream in my mind.
She needs her bottom bracket pulled and overhauled to remove old grease, the handlebars, stem, shift levers and brake levers replaced to a different style and placement. I'm not a fan of drops, especially on this bike. The saddle will also need to be replaced and the tires. Oh and I am probably going to have her painted.
Even with all of that, she truly is a Treasure :)

little 5er

little 5er
Originally uploaded by mom2rays
I have been "trying" lately to do exercise at home, for a few different reasons. I am not the greatest though at finding what works. . .
I got a little 5lb. kettlebell and did my first workout today with it. Who knew 5lb. would get a person all sweaty and trembly, lol. I believe I love it, the workout is relatively quick, the equipment is not major, and I don't have to leave my bedroom to do it.
1st workout consisted of 3 sets of 10 reps each:
Snatch Pull & Push Press
Swing
Deadlift
Windmill
and just to see if I could do it I followed up with one set of 2 reps of the Turkish Standup.

Observations:
I can do this
I'm glad I didn't start with the 7.5lb
I think this will combine well with hooping
I feel happy when I KB like I do when I hoop :)

hair fun

hair fun
Originally uploaded by mom2rays

I don't know exactly what inspired this, but I did my first twist-out. After my shower, and with no time before Gymnastics I decided to twist my hair into 2 strand twist. It didn't look great, but hopefully the next time I will have more time to make it look better. I left it looking less than great overnight until it dried and untwisted it the following day. I really liked the result. I had more visible length yet still maintained my texture and even some coils.
I usually just wash and go, so it's unusual for me to even try to play with my hair. Hopefully much future hair fun is in store!